Almost everyone has experienced a powerful relationship in their life, when suddenly everything which seems so perfectly is broken off because your boyfriend wants space. There are a lot of different reasons why a boyfriend may suddenly need space, including family problems, insecurities, or a fear of commitment just to name a few. Here are some tips for answering the age old “how to get your ex back” question if your ex boyfriend needs more space.

1) First of all, don’t ever show him that you are totally messed up now that he is gone. The idea is to show him you are doing fine without him and that it’s his loss for breaking up with you.

2) If you still love your ex and you can see that he still loves you, try some conversation with him but keep it to a minimum. Lessen your time talking to each other to avoid heating up arguments. You can still keep in touch with each other by sending short text messages, lesser emails, and brief phone calls. You don’t need much time just to tell him you still love him especially that he needs space right now.

3) Hopefully, if everything goes well, he will show interest in you again and this is a great chance for you to bring back the good old times. Focus on all the good memories you both shared together and avoid the negative ones. When you are patching things up with your ex boyfriend, you are going to want to stay away from the bad and negative experiences in case they conjure bad feelings and undo your hard work.

4) If your boyfriend is not responsive to any of your actions, then you need to accept the reality. Either he just really is not interested in you right now, or he really does just need space and you should give it to him. But if your ex boyfriend is showing signs that he is more interested in you than before, then you should continue in slowly getting your ex back.

5) If your ex boyfriend is giving you the right signals, you can try to open your heart up to him. Show him your true feelings without looking needy or desperate while doing it. If your ex is showing you that he is thinking about rekindling things, then it would be healthy to be open with him. But if his signals are pointing in the other direction, it may be wiser to step back and let things happen more naturally.

These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back. They are the initial steps I followed when I lost the love of my life. And frankly these aren’t my original ideas. I have to thank TW Jackson for the ideas that he shared to a lot of people.

TW Jackson authored a simple, down to earth step by step plan called “The Magic Of Making Up“. And you know, it worked like magic for us. Now we are more in love than ever.