One of the more recently asked questions – by women about their men – has to be the one about handling a man with confused feelings.  While the concept of mixed feelings is certainly not new, it does pose some interesting, modern twists.  Yes, of course, many men react to their attraction to a new love with mixed feelings.  Certainly they like what they see and touch, they enjoy your company, they enjoy the intimacy you share.  However, they are not sure how they really feel when they try to distill their feelings down to a few words, thoughts – even categories.  A thorough understanding of these principles might, indeed, help to get your ex back.  If you are trying to recover a relationship damaged by mixed emotions, your chance to win your ex back, will be heightened by knowing all these things.

Many times these are men who previously were quite able to hold their women at bay – taking what they wanted and needed from a relationship – without risking or giving anything back – like their heart.  Now, you are lighting up his circuitry with greater voltage than ever before and his is somewhat perplexed by all the feelings that are flashing though his head, heart, and loins!   He is drawn to you and is just slightly out-of-control.  Wonderful!  That is exactly where you want him to be.  Men who are teetering on the edge of fulfillment – but which requires commitment – are often very ill at ease.  There, there, my sweet – Mommy fix.

As odd – and certainly yummy – as it may sound, you are in an extremely advantageous position if you are the woman in this scenario.  The man who is mixed and confused is begging to hook himself – in fact he will even jump into the boat!   This too fits the scenario where the woman is trying to win back her ex – who may have had mixed emotions about committing.  He is still ‘getable’!  If you are attempting to get ex back from a breakup caused by the absence of these things, take heed.

Your job is to give him all the line he needs – in the form of satisfying all his male needs before surrendering to you.  If you play your cards right he will be yours for the taking.  Of potentially even greater significance is the fact that you will have placed yourself in an extremely advantageous position as regards future ‘management’ of the relationship.   Here is what you need to do starting immediately.

Men thrive on several things that are very often left out of the Cosmo articles about Men.  Men’s lives are all about conquest, attainment, goal achievement, etc – AND THE NEED FOR CONFIRMATION THAT THEY ARE ENTITLED TO SAME.  Your job, therefore, is to convince him that he is, indeed, entitled to the fulfillment of all his dreams and that you can see him accomplishing all of them.  Secondly, you need to feed his ego.  While it sounds corny to some women, telling your Man that he is wonderful, impressive, powerful and almost always right will build giant castles of self worth in his subconscious – all of which are extensions of what has happened in his life since he acquired you!  Amazingly enough, however, it is you who have acquired him!